Thursday, May 6

To make a friend

Thanks so much to all of you have voted in my poll to the right. If you haven't yet, please feel free to do so, you can pick multiple answers. From the look of the votes so far, it appears you fancy posts about life. Ok then! I will tell you about how I met my friend, Tracy, when I was 13.

It is 1995 and I am in Standard 5. All of us kids are lined up on the netball court before school starts. I don't have any friends in my class. The few I made the year before are in other classes. Today is different though. There is a new girl in front of me. She has white blonde hair in a pony tail, skinny legs and a satchel that says 'Tracy.'

Reading it aloud, I say, 'Tracy.'

She swings around and shouts, 'What!?'

'Woah, the new girl is crazy,' I think.

'I'm sorry,' she says.

She is nervous and defensive but I understand. I tell her I'm Lauren and that she can hang with me if she wants.

The bell rings and we march off to class. The first lesson is Maths, my worst. The teacher hands us a test and everyone starts to scribble. Tracy sits to the left in front of me. She hauls out a scientific calculator and starts tapping away. 'Those are banned,' I think. Soon the teacher is yelling at her but she doesn't know the rules.

By break we are talking about her old school in Port Elizabeth and by the holidays we are best friends. We spend the summer of '95 playing Mario Brothers, watching taped music videos and writing fan mail to Green Day. We go for long walks in our neighbourhood and try to stay awake all night long. We eat milk tart washed down with Sprite and page through Kerrang magazine.

I pray that we'll be in the same class when we start high school the following month. We're not and I cry every night for the first term. On the weekends we go to the under 16 club and talk to boys. We watch Toy Story three times and tell each other we'll always be friends. All these year later, we still are.

Here we are hanging out with (read:stalking) Shaun Morgan of Seether and below that, is us knackered after a night on the town. I look sweaty and crazy in both of these, haha!

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Wednesday, May 5

Chocolat

Ten years later and I finally got around to watching the movie, Chocolat! My word, it's as delicious as it sounds! I was so inspired to make something chocolatey afterwards when I remembered this gorgeous book I received as a gift some years ago. It's called Chocolate by Linda Collister. If you ever have to buy a gift for someone with a sweet tooth, I highly recomend it!

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Tuesday, May 4

A dress on the wall

This is one of my favourite dresses. I bought it from Toxic Candy about 6 months ago. I got the idea of hanging dresses on walls from Elsa. Have a wonderful Tuesday! x

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Monday, May 3

Q&A with..erm, me!

Good morning! How are you? I've been busier than usual lately and didn't get a chance to arrange a blogger interview today. Sorry peeps! As a poor means of compensation, I've copied and pasted some questions I anwered on my Formspring account. Shameless self-indulgence I know. I haven't been asked much on Formspring but I'm very touched by the questions I have received. Thank you whoever you are! Some of you have asked me personal questions there which I haven't answered. I don't mean to ignore you but for now, I've decided not to chat about anything too personal online. Thanks for asking though - they're the sort of things I like to ask people too! If you do want to ask me something about fashion, photography or anything that isn't too personal, please feel free to ask away either here or on Formspring.

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Oh, one other thing. Please excuse my shoddy grammar and spelling in my replies. Formspring has a miniature reply form which is a nightmare to edit in so from now on, I'll type my answers in Word and then paste 'em into Formspring.

Whats your favorite accesory?
Oooh, I love accessories! Can I give my top three faves? Gold and cream anchor earings from Cupcake Couture, my long pearly silver vintagey watch necklace and my red and gold anchor bracelet from Accessorize.

Are you a natural blonde?
I used to be when I was a wee lass but no more I'm afraid. I think my natural colour is a mousy brown. I have to blitz it blonde every 5 weeks or so. It's a killer on the purse but I just feel 'more me' having it lighter. Perks me up in the morning;) Thanks for your question sweet. {Update: Am now brunette!}

If you're from Africa, why are you white?
Crikey, well I'm assuming this a joke? There are plenty of white people in Africa, mate. And elephants do not live in our back yards. Crumbs.

What is your day job?
Hi! I work as a copywriter and journalist. Writing commissions are always welcome! Thanks for your question:)

Who is your favourite Office character besides Ryan?
Haha! Ah, I adore them all. Well Jim is just gorgeous and sweet and funny. Dwight cracks me up to no end. I have grown to just love Andy! I will always love Pam but Erin is my new fave girl of the Office. Excellent question!

Who is your favourite author and why?
Sue Townsend because she wrote the wonderful Adrian Mole series. The Cappucino Years is my fave of the lot. Cracks me up every time! I have to read it with tea and fruit gums. Nice question, thanks:)

Since you seem to have very good taste in fonts, can you name some of your favorites/ones you always use.
Oh, thanks. I use Helvetica for long editorial and arial on Glossary. I usually just google free retro fonts and right now I'm using Elephant and Bodoni quite a bit. I can't remember what my header font is... I'll have to get back to you.

At which SA shop do you shop the most?
Ah! Well, I used to work down the road from a Mr Price so I popped in there almost every day and ended up frittering loads away on alice bands etc! For fast fashion, I generally dash into Mr P and Edgars. I also like YDE because I find the designers mimick overseas looks the closest. I tend to always find something special there for a wedding or party. I always look in Woolies too - it's my fave shop in terms of layout and atmosphere. Foschini are also bringing in some London-eque jackets and dresses which I love. Gosh, so much for a one word answer! I could bang on about this all day. x

How would you describe your personality?
A mix of Elliot Reid and Jen from the IT Crowd. I dunno, friendly and a bit neurotic. Lovely!

What is your favorite use of (photography) camera, and why?!!!
Hi! I'm pretty new to the world of cameras and photography but so far I've enjoyed using the Canon SLR's. I'm currently shooting with a 350D. I just snap away on auto but I'd love to learn more about the technical side of things. I'm not sure if I've answered your question though? Feel free to re-ask if you'd like:)

Your photos are awesome. Surprised to hear you're new to it. Anyway, do you have tips of how to take pics of clothing?
Thanks! While I've taken happy snaps for a couple of years but only started using an SLR about a year ago. Um, tips..I'm so flattered you asked! Lets see, I like to zoom in to capture the little details like a ribbon or a buckle but it's also cool to snap a pic of the whole garment if it's for your blog or an ad or something. To capture the texture of the piece, it's best to shoot in sunny, natural light, either mid morning or mid afternoon when the light is good. I often shoot things in the breeze or in front of a fan 'cuz that can give the pic a nice feeling of movement. Shoot from all sorts of angles as well and don't be afraid to try new things. My fave shots are usually happy mistakes! I'm a big fan of what they call 'Bokeh'...when some of the piece is sharply in focus and the rest is blurry. I think you need an SLR or a zoom lens to get that though but I'm no pro so I could be talking complete carrots here! I hope something out of this lot is helpful!

Which of the pairs of shoes you own are your favourite at the moment?
Ooh! I'm always so intrigued as to whose asked me something here! The mysteries of Formspring. My current faves are my Lace Up Boots from YDE although I haven't had a chance to wear them yet. I have gotten LOADS of use out of the black wedges from Legit aleady - a very handy buy that. I also bagged some cute nude platforms from Country Road on the 50% sale a while back - epic bargain. Thanks for the fun question!

There we go! Anything else ya wanna ask me, please fire away:)

Saturday, May 1

My Top 10 Durban Faves

Hiya! I wrote this mini guide for Female2Female a while back but I thought I'd post it here as well.

In February, I visited Jozi for the first time in years. I had a brilliant time and it got me thinking about Durbs and our share of shops and spots. The city is small compared to Jo’burg and Cape Town but the upside of that is, nothing is more than a 20-minute drive away. Tops! Of course, we have beaches, an aquarium and a couple of shopping centers but these are my top ten special spots. I’d love to hear what yours are too.

1. I Heart Market
The market takes place on the last Saturday of every month. Here, you’ll find homemade crafts, trinkets, dresses, cupcakes, fresh veggies and lots of other lovelies. Find It At the DLI building – drive down Marriott Rd, go over the traffic circle and under the bridge. You’ll see an old stately white building on the right hand side – that’s it!


2. Mooi
Lovely little Mooi has antique dressers packed with linens, glass paperweights, sweet accessories and vintage bags. I’m in love with the grey typewriter in the window. Find It Look out for the old bunting on the corner of Clarke and Bulwer Rds in Glenwood.

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3. Vanille Cafe
A breezy French style bistro in Kloof. Sip tea and nibble freshly baked scones in the pebble-strewn courtyard while chickens cluck round your feet! Take a gingerbread man home for later. Find It 5 Bellevue Road, Kloof.

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4. Café 99
A great place for special occassions. Guests are encouraged to share various ‘tidbits’ off the seasonal menu – I recommend the baked camembert and the sesame seed prawn skewers! Service is slick and the food, fantastic. Find It Shop 2, Silvervause Center, 117 Vause Rd, Musgrave

5. Bean Bag Bohemia
A longstanding Durban gem with art on the walls, parasols on the ceiling and DJ’s spinning house. The crispy duck washed down with a cosmo is sublime. Yum! Find It 18 Windermere Road, Greyville

6. Bangkok Wok on Whilson’s Wharf
A real Durban experience. The view of the twinkling harbour lights is awesome and on Tuesday nights, there’s live blues to drink to.

7. No No No Parties at the Willovale Hotel
I’m not sure how often these take place but the two I went to were fantastic. We danced to indie and drank cheap beer till three in the morning. Good fun! Find It Corner of Willowvale and Umbilo Roads

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8. Antiques House/Naughty 90’s
This place is a stylists dream! Think daisies in teapots, shelves piled high with retro tins and silk scarves blowing in the breeze. I usually have the corn fritters with a tall Iced Coffee. Find It Corner of Churchill and Windermere Rds in Windermere.



9. Corner Cafre
A laid back retro cafe in Glenwood. I’ve heard the dippy eggs are cheerfully delish! Next door is a wonderful decor shop called iKaya. Find It Corner of Cromwell St and Davenport Rd

10. Fat Tuesday
The best shop for gifts in Durbs! Stock up on lomo accessories, moleskin notebooks, retro knick knacks and many more awesomes. The lady who owns the store is super friendly and helpful. Find It Bellevue Rd, Kloof next to Vanille

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Some places that I’ve never been to but want to visit are the Hillcrest Hospice Shop, the Kloof SPCA shop and the Bank Gallery. If you’re coming to Durbs for the Soccer World Cup later this year, welcome-welcome! I hope the city treats you well. I’d love to hear what your Durban faves are!